I have a huge extended family.  I mean huge.  A small family dinner when I head to California is easily 30 people.  It's fun, messy, loud and chaotic and I can't imagine it any other way. Everyone, even the little kids had responsibilities in our family.   Because, as the hubs says, the aftermath of our get togethers qualify for FEMA relief.  I began to wonder how I would implement this in my own home. By reading beyond this point, you are agreeing to my updated privacy policy (here), and my use of commission based links.